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Kadampa Working Dad 
Dead writer,
I want to thank you from the deepest parts of my heart. The story of your father is one I relate to almost word for word. Tonight my father sent me a text that he wanted me out of his life for good. I read your story and can’t tell you the places in my heart it touched. Thank you so much. Your words saved my life. Thank you. I am forever a fan.
I hope things heal with your father. The bottom line is when our fathers think in this way, it is their delusions talking, not them. Your real father loves you and wants a close relationship with you. Unfortunately, that father is buried under a bunch of mental crap which you have little control over. Our job is to forgive, to love, and to let go of attachment to them loving us back. We don’t cooperate with their dysfunction, but we don’t shut the door either. Hard stuff. I wish you luck.